He doesn’t want to have sex

He doesn’t want to have sex
 December 12, 2015 at 9:00 am in News, Relationships 

By Aunty Julie
Dear Aunty Julie,
My boyfriend does not seem interested in having sex with me. We  met eight months ago, dated for three months before he left for work to another state. The last time he came back to visit, he stayed with me for three weeks. We slept in the same bed, but he did not initiate any sex.
Love-gone-sour
Love-gone-sour
The few times I tried to initiate it myself, he told me that he was not in the mood.  We had sex only twice during all this time we have been dating. And one day before we left again on assignment, he approached me  from the back, stopped, complaining that I was too tight for him and literally ran away from the house for a few hours.
He is coming back to spend another two weeks with me. What can I do? Shall I try to talk about it long distance before his visit?  How should I approach the issue so that he agrees to talk about it?  I really would like to work it out.
Zikora, Port-Harcourt
Hello Zikora
There are many problems here.  The first is that you two have zero communication.  On top of that, you are just plain miserable with him. He won’t discuss things and it does seem