Saturday, 5 December 2015

Would you date a lover who slept with your friend?


Would you date a lover who slept with your friend?
 December 05, 2015 at 12:11 pm
By Juliet Ebirim
You happen to bump into the man or woman of your dreams. He/she fits the list and has it all checked off twice.
You bring him around to your friend in hopes that they give the stamp of approval only to find out the world is getting smaller because your new-found lover slept with your friend before. Awkward? The circumstances might be different, but could you have a relationship with someone who slept with your friend? Here are the responses of our celebrities:
She’s gone if … – Buchi, Comedian
For me, it’s kind of difficult. If it was something that happened in the past before we met, I will still date her for who she is now. But if it happened while we were dating, she’s gone!
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Buchi
If it’s God’s will, I will – Blessing Patrick, Actress
I will still date him if I confirm from God that he is his will for me. If it is God’s will, it will be corrected and we will have a happy relationship. There’s no forgiveness without sin. The truth is, he messed up, but then, what is God’s will about him for me? God has the final say. Until he says No!, I don’t have the right to reject him. He could be even better than the one who doesn’t cheat.
Yes, I will – Empress Njamah, Actress
Yes, I will still date him. He’s only a lover, not a boyfriend or husband. Since we’re not into a strong relationship, I can let it pass.
I’ll find out why it happened – Crystal Okoye, Actress
Yes, I will, but I’ll find out why it happened. It could be that my friend seduced him or the other way round. All the same, I will find out the reasons for his actions before going back to him.
Not at all! Never! – Adokiye, Singer/Actress
Not at all. Never. That relationship could cost me my life. Risking one’s life for such a relationship is not worth it. If I find myself in such a situation, I would forgive them both at the end of the day. But I don’t think I would want to have anything close and intimate to do with them again. Such people can’t be close to one and that kind of act can’t be totally forgotten, even if forgiven.
No, he has no respect for me – Amanda Ebeye, Actress
Of course not. I wouldn’t date a lover who slept with my friend because it shows that he has no respect for me.

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